Wedding Gift Calculator

The general rule is $50-$75 for a friend, $75-$150 for a close friend, and $100-$200+ for family members. Coworkers are a separate, smaller bracket — see our guide to how much to spend on a coworker wedding gift for the $20–$75 norm and the office group-gift playbook.

Cash or gift cards are the most popular and practical option. 80% of couples prefer cash gifts according to recent surveys.

Most friend and office groups land at $20–$75 per person. An office team typically chips in $15–$30 each toward a $200–$400 gift, casual friend circles $25–$50, and close friend groups $50–$90. Divide the target gift by the number of people who actually confirmed, and never contribute more than you would have given on your own. Our guide to group wedding gift amounts per person has the full split tables and the collection math.